Your Most Significant Conversation Part 1

social-media-chatter-figures-300x225What is the most significant conversation you will ever have?  The most powerful and influential conversation?  Wouldn’t you like to know who this powerful person is?

It is you – you alone stand between success and failure, power and procrastination, life and death.  Amazing potential hey, but how will you use it?

That chatter that never ceases every waking moment in our heads is what determines your success or failure.  You alone tell yourself if you can or can not.  The hardest thing about this is that many of you are unaware of this continual chatter and the power it has over you.  WHY?

Your chatter drives your thoughts, and this affects your beliefs and then your behavior.

For example, you had a disagreement with your friend, there were some angry words exchanged.  You haven’t spoken for 2 days, very unusual for you two, its normally every day minimum.

Each time you think to send a quick text or pick up the phone the voice in your head says to you, “Don’t you dare, you know they did the wrong thing.  You know you were right, they can apologise, it’s the least they can do.”  As time goes on the chatter gets even stronger.

“How dare they not call you and apologise, what kind of friend are they???”  You find yourself getting more and more upset.

In reality, your friend may have done the wrong thing. Who really knows?  I have often found there are three versions of the truth, yours, theirs and the truth, (somewhere in the middle).  It is really all about perspective and perspective is powerful.

This chatter drives your behavior.  However it does not have to, or at least you can have much more control.  There are 4 steps that I teach to help you become Master of your Chatter.  They are C H A T and I will share them with you in coming posts.

This is critical if you want to ensure that you achieve all that you want in your life.

So for today I just wanted to raise your awareness to your chatter, have a listen and notice what you are saying to yourself.  You may well be very surprised.

Until next time,

Until next time, Care, Connect and be a Courageous Communicator.  Let’s change the world we live in one conversation at a time. smilie face